Nate’s Pancakes

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Nate the Great

Reading has been a little bit of a struggle for my oldest daughter. The struggle was not her, but the books we were picking. After searching and searching, I found a detective book, Nate The Great by Marjorie Weinman Sharmat. She’s a little detective herself, so she could relate to Nate. After finishing the book we noticed Nate’s Pancake Recipe in the back…it’s perfect for a hungry detective and there’s also leftovers for her sisters 🙂

A good book with a hands on activity equals the love of learning and a yummy breakfast!

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Now eat and think deep thoughts 😉

Let’s Go Swimming!

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It’s the 1st day of Summer, the sun is shining and the beach is calling our name. We live in the sunshine state, that is surrounded by water. Every year around this time, we notice people wearing less and less, especially the closer we get to the water.

About four years ago we decided our girls wouldn’t wear those tiny little bathing suits. The colors and styles can be so cute on a little toddler’s body, but if we wouldn’t allow them to wear that when they are 15 years old, then we’re not going to let them dress that way when they are three years old.

Victoria innocently asked me the other day, while I was searching for a bathing suit online, “Why is that girl wearing just her panties and bra?” Funny but true. Society says it’s okay to wear itsy bitsy bathing suits and even encourages it, but you wouldn’t walk out of your bathroom into your living room, while guests are over, in just your panties and bra.

God has made each of our girls beautiful, from their long eye lashes to their soft tiny toes. We are raising them to dress with dignity and to honor their bodies, not to flaunt it for everyone to gawk at.

Here’s an example of our fun sandcastle beachwear….cute, stylish and you don’t have to worry about anything popping or hanging out 😉

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The bathing suits are from Children’s Place and the boardshorts are from Old Navy.

10 for 10

WeddingMy husband and I just celebrated our ten-year anniversary! I can’t believe we have been married that long…it just seems like yesterday we were at Barnes and Noble studying for a Psychology exam.

We have learned a few things these past ten years of our marriage. We aren’t here to say we have it all figured out because that is far from the truth but we do have some tips to share for couples just starting out.

The list below is our 10 tips in honor of our 10 years of marriage. There is no order to the list, we believe all are important. There is only one exception…number one, must always stay number one, God.

1. GOD
By putting God first, you are dying to self. God helps us to keep our priorities straight, our focus and goals aligned with his. When we take our eyes off our Father, we tend to draw them to ourselves, which can create multiple problems between you and your spouse.

2. COMMUNICATION
Everyone knows communication is important, but we still lack in this area. We expect our spouse to know what we want and need all the time, but our spouse is not a mind reader. We must verbalize our thoughts and feelings, leave the guessing and assuming out!

3. FORGIVENESS
In Colossians 3:13 it says, “Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.” Nothing is worth your marriage. It might not be easy sometimes but we need to learn to swallow our pride and ask for forgiveness. Here’s one more scripture that sticks out, it’s found in Ephesians 4:26 “In your anger do not sin”: Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry. I know personally there have been times in my early years of marriage that one of us went to bed upset with the other. This only caused more problems. Find a way to talk about the issue before you lay your head down at night.

4. KNOW YOUR SPOUSE
You could give your spouse gifts until you run out of money, but if that isn’t their love language you are doing it all in vain.

5. SEX
God gave married couples the greatest gift ever, sex! Just a small three-letter word that can super glue your marriage together or build a wall between you and your spouse that make you feel like roommates instead lovers.

6. DATES
Schedule, plan, make the time and have fun with your best friend. When little ones come you can get lost in the daily, weekly, and eventually yearly demands that come along with them. It’s easy to push your marriage to the back burner but by doing so you will wake up one morning laying beside a stranger.

7. NEVER LET ANYTHING BECOME BETWEEN YOU AND YOUR SPOUSE
Money, children, in-laws, jobs, etc. can place wedges between you and your spouse…Don’t let them. Matthew 19:6 “So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.”

8. SUPPORT
We all need support but even more from our best friend, our spouse. A perfect example of this in the movie Cinderella Man. Jim Braddock chooses to fight Max Baer, a man known for killing men in the ring. Mae Braddock does not support her husband in this decision. Jim just can’t get his head on right knowing his woman isn’t behind him in this decision, but as soon as she comes to let him know she stands behind him, a load is lifted off his shoulders. There is nothing that can defeat this man, now that he knows his girl supports him.

9. THE GRASS ISN’T ALWAYS GREENER ON THE OTHER SIDE!
It doesn’t do anyone any good to envy the marriages of friends or family. No one knows what goes on behind closed doors. Comparing your marriage or your spouse is dangerous, don’t do it!

10. DIVORCE IS NOT AN OPTION!

Can we have a ReDo?

Six months a go I started planning our big trip! This trip we would be celebrating our Ten Year Anniversary, our daughter turning 8 and family time. We were so excited. I searched for deals, reserved breakfast, lunch, and dinner at the best places.

May was finally here, let the packing begin or so I thought. Two days before our trip Alayna woke up with a terrible migraine, she couldn’t even open her eyes! One hour later she was diagnosed with strep at the doctors office! Then Victoria started feeling sick and weak, but was negative for strep. The next morning, the day before we leave, our son slipped on the floor and I had to take him to get stitches! At this point I started thinking about cancelling the trip. After praying and talking it over with my husband we decided to go for it.

We pulled out of the drive way Thursday afternoon, the sun was shining and the kids were smiling. Fort Wilderness here we come! Alayna still had to wear her sunglasses everywhere we went because of her headache and sensitivity to the light, but at least she was feeling better.

Our first reservations was at Boma at the Animal Kingdom Lodge. We were ready to try Disney’s idea of African flavors. I started with some Spinach and Quinoa Salad, Tunisian Couscous Salad and Tabbouleh. The girls just enjoyed coloring their paper of a hog stuck in the mud.  After dinner, we walked around the lodge looking at the different animals…there were zebras, giraffes, ostriches, flamingos, impalas, gazelles, and more.

Lodge

It was 7:30pm and the night was young. Daddy yelled, “Let’s go swimming!” I am so glad we did because that was the one and only time the girls were well enough to swim. The resort had two different play areas at the pool one for kids shorter than 48 inches and one for the bigger kids. The Meadow Swimmin’ Pool, featured a 67-foot-long corkscrew waterslide…Victoria and Alayna had a blast going down the slide time and time again.

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Everyone was tucked in ready for bed. The day had turned out well but 2am would come oh to quickly. Mama I had an accident, “Kayla started crying.” Two hours later Victoria was crying the same thing. I later figured out the girls had Gastroenteritis!

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Finally around 7am the girls were back in bed sound asleep when Josiah decided to wake up. It was May 31st, our 10 year anniversary and it was also our big girl Alayna’s birthday! Again we were stuck. What should we do? Two of our four kids were sick. Were they sick from the food the night before or was it something else? Victoria started doing better, so I figured it was something they ate. If we cancelled the reservation we would still get charged because of their cancellation policy! Alayna put on her birthday girl shirt and we were off to 1900 Park Fare at the Grand Floridian. As soon as I opened the car door I noticed a white Pandora bag sitting in my seat. My hubby had a special anniversary present waiting for me. I couldn’t believe it! It’s very hard to surprise me because I’m always into everything! But he did it!

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At check in I explained our situation to the host and she said they wouldn’t charge us for Kayla since she didn’t feel well enough to eat. She also explained they wouldn’t have charged us if we had called and told them the kids were sick…ugh! Well, it was too late for that now. We were there and the birthday girl was ready to eat! All you could eat Mickey waffles, eggs, bacon, biscuits, gravy, omelets, bagels and more! Josiah wasn’t too sure about the characters but enjoyed the food!

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The highlight of the breakfast, by, far, was the Mad Hatter…what a character!

The Hatter

Right about the time we were finishing up with Alice from Wonderland, Alayna leaned over, “I have to use the bathroom!”Everything was down hill from there! We went to Wal-Mart to pick up some extra under garments and crackers then back to the cabin we went 😦

In between bathroom breaks and naps the girls wanted to venture out again. The lodge had many activities, but we had to choose wisely because we didn’t want to infect anyone else. We decided to go for a little pony ride. After each one had their turn we returned back to the cabin again!

Who wants S’mores? I do!!! This was our last night, everyone was fever free! Chip and Dale’s campfire sing along was calling our name. I love S’mores, I think I had four, but whose counting we are on vacation, remember!

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Click, I snapped a pick of the family with Chip, when suddenly I hear Alayna say, “Mama I’m sick!”

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Lord have mercy, we were done!

This trip had some good memories, but more bad than good. We  would definitely like to try it again next year, minus all the yucknyess!

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Do You Trust Him

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“Mama,” yelled Alayna… “Kayla won’t give me my offering jar back! It’s mine and she won’t give it back!” I asked Alayna if Kayla could play with it for a few minutes. Alayna continued to argue her case. “Kayla said she won’t ever give it back to me! That she’s going to keep it forever!” I then asked Alayna, “Do you trust me?” “But Mama!” “No buts, do you trust me enough to know that I will take care of you and the situation? All you needed to do was let me know and I’ll take care of it. You might not get the jar back right when you want it but in my time, the right time, I will get it and return to you what is yours.”

In the middle of my lecture I heard God speak to me! “Do you trust me?” If we truly trusted God then we wouldn’t get so upset when things get taken from us, because we would know God has it under control. We wouldn’t throw a fit and continue to argue our case to God.

We call ourselves Christians, which means we have faith there is a God. The true test comes when we put our faith into action and trust Him with our things and our life. While faith says “He can…,” trust says “He is… and I will think and act accordingly!”

After we take the time to share our heart with our Heavenly Father, we should know it is taken care of. The answer or solution might not come when you want it, but at the right time, the perfect time, He will return to you what is yours.

Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.” Proverbs 3:5-6

“By faith Abraham, when called to go to a place he would later receive as his inheritance, obeyed and went, even though he did not know where he was going.” Hebrews 11:8

Take it Up a Notch

Step it upIt’s been over six weeks since our workout challenge started. If you have been working out consistently since then, it’s time to take it up a notch.

This week let’s change it up a little…Instead of dividing the body between upper and lower, let’s combine exercises to workout the full body. There are many benefits to working out the total body…I listed a few below:
-Better Core Development
-Lower Time Commitment
-Reduced Risk of Overtraining
-Ideal for Home Workouts
-Ideal for Fat Loss
-Lower Levels of Boredom (my favorite)

Full Body Routine
3x’s this week with at least a day break in between:

3 to 4 sets 10 to 12 reps, 5 to 10 lbs
-Squat with a overhead press (at the top)
-Stationary Lunge with bicep curls
-Alternate between Tricep Kickbacks and Bent over Flys
-20 to 30 second Plank
-25 Crunches
-15 Supermans
-10 Jumping Jacks

Again, I set up my workout area like a circuit and go from one exercise to the next. At the end of each circuit I perform one set of 10 jumping jacks. I enjoy working out more when it’s exciting.  Remember to BREATH, STRETCH, DRINK WATER, and always perform the exercises SLOW and CONTROLLED! If something hurts you, it may be that you are not performing the exercise properly, listening to your body is key. So have fun, but be safe.

Moody and Thirsty

Psa. 19:7

A couple of weeks ago I noticed myself feeling irritated, tired and drained. My husband and I had been moving for four days straight…from sun up to sun down we were packing, lifting, carrying, and stacking. It was finally done and I felt miserable!

I began to analyze myself. Why did I feel there was a battle going on inside of me? Why did I feel I could snap at any moment? I realized I hadn’t had any time of refreshing in the past week. I had been so focused on our move that I didn’t take time to spend with God like I usually do or pray like I usually do and just sit and enjoy the blessings around me. I was physically, mentally and spiritually drained, I was thirsty!

As a homeschooling mother of four, I am like a kitchen faucet that is never turned off. I am constantly pouring into the little hearts that surround me 24/7 and when they are done my husband is waiting so patiently. If I want to be the wife, mother, teacher, daughter, sister, friend, and light to this world that God has called me to, I need to be refreshed daily.

After I realized what was causing my internal problem, it was an easy fix. I took about twenty minutes to just relax with my feet up, reading and studying the word. The Bible tells us in Psalms 19:7, “The law of the LORD is perfect, refreshing the soul. The statutes of the LORD are trustworthy, making wise the simple.”

Each person has a different personality, therefore, each person has a different way of being refreshed. My husband feels refreshed after a couple of games of basketball, others might feel refreshed after fellow-shipping with some close friends. Whatever it may be, it is important to take time for yourself and more importantly take time in the Word. Taking this time is not just because we selfishly need to be refreshed but rather our children, husband, friends, and others need to be refreshed. We cannot give something we do not have, including smiles and words of encouragement. So, make it a priority to spend 15 to 20 minutes refreshing yourself daily and refilling your spiritual well. Then we can give our family and others the love, grace and mercy they need.

Encouraging Individual Study

There are many times I am spread thin with four little ones. I am always thinking and looking into ways I can encouraging individual study time, so I can have five to ten minutes of one on one time with each child.

I came across this idea the other day online and I had to share it!

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All you need is a small photo album. I picked one up from the Dollar Store yesterday. Then add your flash cards. While I’m working with my kindergarten on her work, my second grader can practice her facts by herself and when she’s done I can check them. Make sure to use a dry erase marker and it will be easy to wipe off the answers for later use.

 

You can also laminate your flash cards, whatever works best for you.

Happy Learning Everyone 🙂

 

The Circle of Safety

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Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. “Honor your father and mother”—which is the first commandment with a promise— “so that it may go well with you and that you may enjoy long life on the earth.” Ephesians 6:1-3

I have heard and read this scripture many times over the weekend. Our pastor preached from this scripture on Sunday morning and then I read it again last night during my study time.

Any time I go out to run errands, I constantly tell my girls to stay close to me. Being a mom of four I can’t hold all of their hands, so I have taught them to either hold each others hands and my pockets or to walk right beside me. At least once a week, I explain to them that their safety depends on them listening to me. If they are not aware of what’s going on around them and are not listening and obeying my voice something terrible could happen to them.

I like how Tedd Tripp explains, “Children’s obedience is not secured so that you can be obeyed for your sake. You must be obeyed for their sakes!”

As long as our children are honoring and obeying our words, they can receive security, safety, and blessings from above. Obedience is willing submission of one person to the authority of another. It means more than a child doing what he is told. It means doing what he is told without challenge, without excuse, and without delay.

One morning the girls and I were making our weekly trip to the grocery store. As everyone was getting out of the car. I saw another car driving up quickly to park into the spot beside us. I quickly told my daughter, getting out of the van, to stop. If she would have questioned me or went ahead anyways, she would have been hit!  When a child steps away from your guidance, rules, or instructions they are putting themselves into harms way. They are walking outside the circle of safety.

Demonstration:

Blindfold your child. Tell them to listen carefully to your words. Now give them a couple of spins around. Next walk them through the house by giving them clear instructions, take one step forward, two steps to the left, etc., but be very specific so they do not fall or hit anything. Now with the blindfold still on, tell them they are free to walk any where they want to, but no one can help them. They will most likely run into some walls or furniture.

The same things happen when a child decides to go on their own and not obey their parents. They can stumble and fall but if they choose to obey their parents their walk will be smoother and may enjoy long life on the earth.

We can talk, lecture, and scold until we are blue in the face, but when we lead by example, something powerful happens. Our children actually have a model to follow after when they see Mom submitting to Dad and their parents submitting to the state and the church, it then goes beyond the words and a connection is made.

 

Week 2 Workout Challenge

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Well, it’s week two. It’s a battle with my personality to take things slow, but I am. This week concentrate on your form and performing the exercises properly. If you want, you can do one upper body routine this week and two lower body routines or visa versa, it’s up to you. I don’t want you to increase your sets or reps yet. Just increase the times you workout from twice last week to three times this week. The workouts should only take 20 to 30 minutes and that includes stretching.

“You don’t always get what you wish for, you get what you work for! (-unknown author)” So work hard, have fun and be safe.Â